{"id":35212,"date":"2026-09-27T11:42:20","date_gmt":"2026-09-27T15:42:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/?p=35212"},"modified":"2026-09-27T11:42:20","modified_gmt":"2026-09-27T15:42:20","slug":"still-feel-like-its-my-fault","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/?p=35212","title":{"rendered":"Still feel like it&#8217;s my fault&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Well&#8230;after the museum this morning, we found that there really isn&#8217;t anything else we want to do here in Florence so we took the afternoon off to just relax and recover&#8230;and I still feel like it&#8217;s my fault that I didn&#8217;t do the homework to keep us busy for our time here&#8230;I can&#8217;t expect my daughter to do everything and keep me amused but I guess I look at it like we are resting up for Rome and will be back at full speed tomorrow&#8230;I think she feels stressed out about having to plan it all when I like having time to do nothing after walking 25 miles here&#8230;so as of tonight, I am going to make sure I make decisions to match her&#8230;no anything you want or that bullshit that I do trying to make sure she does things she wants to do and not just me&#8230;but that hasn&#8217;t worked so far and I really don&#8217;t know how to fix it&#8230;maybe I&#8217;m reading into it something that isn&#8217;t there? Yeah, probably&#8230;but that&#8217;s been me my entire life so how can I change now? She just doesn&#8217;t look happy and I hate that&#8230;crap&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well&#8230;after the museum this morning, we found that there really isn&#8217;t anything else we want to do here in Florence so we took the afternoon off to just relax and recover&#8230;and I still feel like it&#8217;s my fault that I didn&#8217;t do the homework to keep us busy for our time here&#8230;I can&#8217;t expect my &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/?p=35212\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Still feel like it&#8217;s my fault&#8230;<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[41],"class_list":["post-35212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-my-life","tag-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=35212"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35212\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35213,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35212\/revisions\/35213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=35212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=35212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamesdevol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=35212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}